There are a lot of different phases in a man’s life…as Shakespeare put it in ‘All the World’s a Stage’…or maybe like Sean Penn showed it in ‘Into the Wild’…another example would be the Z boys from ‘Lords Of Dogtown’….or maybe it’s like I put it…
It starts with the point where you’re learning the differences between good and bad…then comes a point where you learn about like and not like…then a gear higher into LAME and COOL(very important amongst us teenagers…don’t you think !!!)…and then comes the important part…when you finally get that mind of yours and you’ve seen some of the world…you start getting your own ideas of good and bad, like and not like, lame and cool….and this is the part where all the problems arise and some are even sorted out….this is the point where some guys become men and some girls become women….this is the point where your parents have trouble keeping up with you and this is the point where you sometimes start thinking yourself to be ‘matured’(true in many cases)…but amongst all this there is always a thought towards the activity called life…at the first phase you want to be everything that is good…in the second you want to be everything you like…in the third you want to be cool…and then in the important phase you figure out or at least try to figure out what you want to be….this is where all that confusion comes onto you…this is where you decide and find out if you have the balls to face life…this is where choices seem to be the worst thing in this world…but this my friend is where it all comes down to…this is what decides if you’ll be a pilot, a businessman, a terrorist, a diplomat….etc….or maybe you just don’t want to go with the system…. I’m not an expert of some kind but I think this point is what decides what is sometimes called destiny…. I mean….you may have done journalism and you may be a singer now….but think to yourself….wasn’t singing the best thing for you when you were at the important phase….a very good example I have from my personal life is Mr. X(a businessman now…he is a real person…but I don’t take the name of any person who’s not in my good friends list)….and when I hear how he was in this age…. I always find that he had less amount of money and he made the most of it….wherever he spent money he got the most out of it….isn’t that what a businessman does….doesn’t he spend his money on the stuff that would get him the most returns….and Mr. X mind you is technically an engineer…. So how does all this sound to you….does it sound right….do you think I’m right….well…. I’ll leave the thinking to you then…. Adios amigo….
4 comments:
Hmmm..thinking !!!
dude..you are awesome!
keep blogging...
hmm ..mind you ..u do have guts to speak out about ur life in a mighty philosophical way n questionin ur past choices n ur deeds..cant say dat u do have a wish to die to run away from all of it coz as u said u look up to sun ..dat signifies hope ..hope dat life becomes as u wish it to be ...u still ponder over ur past as in ur life till now n ur decision to take up engineering instead of mass com or english honours...well dats parentalpressure cant blame parents yet but dats the expectations from everyone ..ur right dis world doesnt accept loosers n wel u cant consider ur self looser cos despite all odds u still wished to continue on the path n cursing ur way through it coz u never wanted to end up in position of such sort ..holidays did help a lot ...looks like u didnt realise what u wanted at a right time but still some doors are open for u ..its kinda tough to be d black sheep of the family or even of the society ..tough to handle criticisms n d talks made behind ur back but u knw if u believe in urself u will shine in the end ...'the kind of emotions ur goin through thats pretty common in every teenagers life ..kinda the urban environment had made the life of ours insecure in various ways...as far as ur money thing is concerned being materialistic is like a second phenomena of life why well who doesnt look for comfort in life ...u also do have the same craving for sure but the thought of it have made u tiresome ....well life isnt easy n it never will be ..noones askin u to prove urself but think for an instance..does the joys of life are so meek that they r over powered by the harsh realities of life ...started sooner or later but u did think about all of it...n regardin ur coll life ...well adjustments have to be done in life ...ur choice though stand up against them or accept them n still find some valuabale things inside them ...why am i sayin all dis to u ..may be coz even i go through all dis or have been through all dis but u knw deres one slight difference ..am positive about all of it ...u didnt choose ur wish over others expectation n in the hoped dat it may be well in the end similary even i did but i realised sooner n left it jus like dat ....people asked a lot i didnt care i chose my path ..i had to prove myself prove others wrong believein inwhat i did was right n u knw what ..i did..i achieved my first target n won now lookin forward to step on others....tellin u dis coz even i was obsessed of thought of endin my life after havin any small fight or frustration wid family friends relatives n the whole world ...kinda jus tellin build ur hope have some more guts n face all of it ...amen ..would love to read d reply n yup am not pointing a finger at u or anythin jus sharin n lending a helpin hand if in trouble :)
well...for ur reply...do my posts really sound like I want to kill myself...damn...i never thought they did...well...i'm not that good a writer anyway...but i'll tell u this...killing myslef and stuff....nah...they never come to me....and I am not questioning my choices...u don't question an experiment...what's it an experiment for !!!
neither do i consider myself a looser...and I think I have proof to prove it....
wel u have mentioned it twice or thrice pal hehehe anyways gud to hear u aint depressed after all ...seriously jesus... the kinda trend dese days in youngsters.... dunno why is it hip n happenin for everyone to talk abouth death... lonelinee n depression ..y dont dey jus go on n get a life ...well experiment u did n acoordin to the results of the experiment the errors have to be analysed n rectified right ..hope u do dat ..never said dat ur looser but u questioned it to urself indirectly ..looked like it ..not my fault might have misinterpreted it ...looked like got wrong in analysin the stuff...well never been wrong but nonetheless i respect ur opinion n decision anyways my work done here...adios pal :)...have a wonderful n cheerful life ahead !!!
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